올리비아 와일드 그리고 해리 스타일‘ recent break was the result of a “tricky situation.”

PEOPLE reported Friday that the 걱정마 달링 감독, 38, 그리고 “As It Was” 가수, 28, ~이다 taking a break from their relationship after nearly two years together.

A source tells PEOPLE, “The break has been difficult for Olivia. They have had some issues, but Olivia thought they were gonna work through it all. She is disappointed. It’s just a tricky situation, 그렇지만.”

An insider said last week that the “very amicable decision” to put their romance on pause was because Styles is “still touring and is now going abroad” while Wilde “is focusing on her kids and her work in L.A.”

They simply “have different priorities that are keeping them apart,” a friend of the pair added.

Wilde — along with her children, daughter Daisy, 6, and son Otis, 8 (그녀 co-parents with ex-fiancé Jason Sudeikis) - 이었다 spotted dancing and singing along at Styles’ 11월. 15 concert in Los Angeles. She stepped out for the 13th Governors Awards on Saturday, 그녀의 first red carpet appearance since news of their break. 스타일, 그 동안에, is heading abroad for his 러브 온 투어 쇼.

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Over the course of their relationship, Wilde and Styles have had to endure drama surrounding the release of their film 걱정마 달링, namely persistent claims that Wilde and the film’s leading actress Florence Pugh were at odds.

“The public pressure on them has been difficult,” said the friend. “They’ve had ups and downs throughout the relationship.”

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와일드 explained to 허영 박람회 in September why she keeps details of her romance with Styles private: “I think once you crack open the window, you can’t then be mad when mosquitos come in.”

그의 부분을 위해, 스타일 구르는 돌 in August he also wanted to keep his personal life under wraps: “I’ve never talked about my life away from work publicly and found that it’s benefited me positively. There’s always going to be a version of a narrative, and I think I just decided I wasn’t going to spend the time trying to correct it or redirect it in some way.”