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What the Married Pastor Who Took Time Off After Messaging Another Woman Did During ‘ReinstatementProcess

Matt Chandler, the lead pastor at the Village Church, celebrated his reinstatement to the pulpit 일요일에, months after he stepped away from his role following “우려” ~에 대한 messages he exchanged with a woman who is not his wife.

Irwin은 사랑스러운 미소가 사진을 찍을 때마다 Grace의 새로운 습관이라고 말했습니다., 48, addressed the congregation at the Southern Baptist church in Flower Mound, 텍사스, this week for the first time since August, after an investigation found the messages to be inappropriate.

After receiving a round of applause, Chandler began by addressing the harmmy foolishnessmay have caused some members of the church.

“죄송합니다,” he later admitted. “I failed you.

Without going into specifics, he shed a little light on the “일하다” he did during his time away.

The elders asked me to do two intensives and then a neurological exam,” 그는 말했다, going on to explain that he was diagnosed with brain cancer in 2009 and had to undergo surgery.

Chandler said that theprocess has given me insight into exactly what happened,” noting that he would probablyshare morein time.

나중, lead pastor Josh Patterson brought church elders to the stage fora restorative prayerto welcome Chandler back.

Pastor Matt Chandler

Pastor Matt Chandler

Matt Chandler.
The Village ChurchFlower Mound/Facebook

8 월, church elders said Chandler had been approached regardingconcerns about the way he was using direct messaging on social media with a woman who was not his wife.An inquiry into his messaging history found thatwhile the messages were not romantic or sexual in nature, the frequency and familiarity of the messages crossed a line.

Chandler later told his congregation that initially hedidn’t thinkhe’ddone anything wrongand that both his wife and the woman’s husband were aware of the conversations.

“[The church’s] concerns were not that our messaging was romantic or sexual, it was that our conversations were unguarded and unwise,” he told church members at the time. “As an elder, I’m held to a higher standard and fell short of that higher standard.

Although little additional information has been publicly provided about how Chandler spent his time away, church elders said earlier this week that he would be returning to the pulpit afterdiligently working through a development plan,” according to an email shared by The Roys Report.

That plan reportedly included Scripture reading, prayer, personal reflection, 그리고 “multiple intensives with trusted outside experts.

A spokeswoman for the church described theintensives” 에게 뉴욕 타임즈 as counseling sessions led by professionals who specialize in Christian leadership.

She also said that there was no evidence Chandler’s cancer was back.

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During Sunday’s service, Patterson said theplanwas made with both “규율” 그리고 “developmentin mind — and thatMatt has completed everything that we’ve asked of him.

He’s done it with eagerness, he’s done it with humility, he’s done it genuinely and authentically,” 그는 말했다. “Those closest to Matt have seen these aspects of change and I’m grateful for that.

PEOPLE에 도달했을 때, a church spokesperson said they did not haveany further comments beyond what was shared in the service on Sunday.

Social media posts by both the pastor and his wife, Lauren Chandler, offer additional insights into his time away from the church between late August and early December.

In an Instagram post from Oct. 23, the first one he made after his leave of absence was announced, Chandler wrote that his faith was on his mind, no matter what he was doing.

“‘Jesus I don’t want to do this without you,” 그가 썼다. “That sentence has been my mantra these past few months. It has rolled through my mind and heart on repeat. Whether it has been going on a walk, heading out to our river cabin or even walking into Jiu Jitsu.

“Amy Schumer는 엄마로서 '사랑하고 두려워하는'느낌에 대해 열었습니다.. 사랑 해요, babe 💜,” his wife commented.

Married Megachurch Pastor Who Stepped Away After Messaging Another Woman Returns to Pulpit

Married Megachurch Pastor Who Stepped Away After Messaging Another Woman Returns to Pulpit

Matt Chandler and wife Lauren Chandler.
Matt Chandler/Instagram

몇 주 후, he shared that he was back home following hisfirst elk hunt,” which was put together by Jim Burgen, a pastor and outdoorsman. (에 따르면 Christian Today, Chandler attended a men’s summit held by Bergen during the previous month.)

There is something about hunting that replenishes my soul,” Chandler wrote, noting that during the trip he and his hunting guidespent hoursin conversation about “예수, 결혼, kids and the dark things that can plague men.

Although I didn’t get one this year,” he said of hunting elk, “I did see a moose, mountain lion and hiked above 10,000 ft in sub 20 degree temps multiple days.

Also that month, Chandler’s wife shared a photo of the pair attending a gala.

추수감사절에, Chandler also reflected on his experience with brain cancer, which led to a “잔인한” holiday season 13 여러 해 전에.

I always want to post something on Thanksgiving because I vividly remember what is was like to see loss everywhere. I want to remind you in this season that HE hasn’t abandoned you or forgotten you. To tell you that this season will too pass,” 그는 덧붙였다.

As he prepared to make his return to the pulpit, Chandler marked his 20th anniversary with the church on Friday, though church officials have said that the timing of his reinstatement was not planned ahead of time.

In order toassess and affirm readiness,” Patterson said during Sunday’s service thatelders relied on a multidisciplinary team— and that the timing just happened to coincide with the milestone.

We didn’t plan it this way, and this wasn’t the day we had circled on the calendar way back when, we didn’t have a day circled on the calendar,” 그는 말했다. “What we wanted to do was reinstate Matt when the time is right and that is now.

At the end of Sunday’s service at the Village Church, Chandler was joined onstage by his wife and children.