“What’s crazy is this is the longest we haven’t seen each other,” Nikki said. “We went six or seven weeks [separado] because I got [a judging gig on] OITO: Extreme … Artem and I both discussed, [our son] Teo goes everywhere with mama. That’s where he’s comfortable, that’s where he does best. E, você sabe, it’s been hard on [Artem], and it’s been hard on me too not to have my man in my bed for over six, seven weeks.”
“It’s been really hard on us, but we’ve had some sexy FaceTimes. And we’re actually in a good spot. We were doing a little rocky for a bit,” ela continuou, noting how she’d love to have Chigvintsev on the podcast to discuss how to “get back into therapy.”
Nikki also explained how being raised in a different country from Chigvintsev — who is from Russia — had an “effect” on the pair’s communication. But she insisted the couple is currently in a good place.
“Now we’re stronger than ever,” ela adicionou.
According to Nikki, part of what allowed things to become “rocky” is her being left to do the heavy lifting.
“When you’re away from each other, there’s different time zones. Myself having Matteo and working long hours, I need Artem to check in in ways of like, ‘How are you? How are you doing? How’s Matteo doing? What can I do?'” Nikki said. “Sometimes I feel like the other person, mainly the dads, they get into this [mindset of] they FaceTimed and that’s great, and they get on the phone and that’s where it ends for them. And it’s just hard when the involvement beyond that isn’t there.”
“… I’m doing the whole [family’s] to-do lists, Matteo’s to-do lists, the house we’re building’s to-do list,” ela continuou. “All the to-do lists are going in my head.”
Nikki said this “causes … a little bit of tension in the relationship,” but the issues are “always innocent things that the other person doesn’t realize so you communicate with them, [mas] sometimes you want them to guess” what’s wrong.
Nikki and Chigvintsev began dating in early 2019 and got engaged later that year. Elas welcomed their son Matteo em julho 2020.
Ano passado, Nikki revealed the pair were going to start going to couple’s therapy.
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“It’s mainly just to be amazing parents and knowing how to balance parent life out and also our own relationship,” ela disse em The Tamron Hall Show. “Because Artem and I don’t ever want to have a struggle. Você sabe, we plan on being married.
“We’re actually in therapy for this,” ela adicionou.
Nikki previously opened up the pair’s wedding being put on hold, saying their “ocupado” schedules are partly to blame.
“We’d love it to be in the fall and a few of the venues were like, ‘We’re available.’ And what we just started saying is, ‘We’re so busy every day and we completely remodeled the inside of our home,'” ela disse Entertainment Tonight em junho. “We haven’t even lived in it yet and we’re doing the outside and that takes so much work. We’re still not even done designing. And so he and I both were just like, ‘Let’s get through the house. If it happens, it happens.'”