Cheslie Kryst‘s mother is opening up about losing her daughter.
The former Miss USA’s death was ruled a suicide, the New York City Office of Chief Medical Examiner PEOPLE에게 확인됨 화요일에. 그녀는 30 살이에요.
“I have never known a pain as deep as this. I am forever changed. 오늘, what our family and friends privately knew was the cause of death of my sweet baby girl, Cheslie, was officially confirmed,” 그녀의 어머니, April Simpkins, said in a statement obtained by PEOPLE.
“While it may be hard to believe, 사실이야. Cheslie led both a public and a private life. In her private life, she was dealing with high-functioning depression which she hid from everyone — including me, her closest confidant — until very shortly before her death,” Simpkins continued.
Although Kryst’s “life on this earth was short, it was filled with many beautiful memories,” 그녀의 어머니는 썼다.
“We miss her laugh, her words of wisdom, her sense of humor and mostly her hugs. We miss all of it — we miss all of her. She was a vital part of our family which makes this loss even more devastating,” Simpkins added.
“Cheslie — to the world, you were a ball of sunshine wrapped in smiles. We talked, FaceTimed or texted one another all day, 매일. You were more than a daughter — you were my very best friend. Talking with you was one of the best parts of my day. Your smile and laugh were infectious,” 그녀는 계속했다. “I love you baby girl with all my heart. I miss you desperately. I know one day we’ll be together again. 그때까지, rest easy and in peace.”
꽃 대신, Simpkins asks that any donations be made to Dress for Success, “an organization that was dear” to her daughter’s heart.
“If you or anyone else is struggling with thoughts of suicide, please contact the National Suicide Hotline at 800-273-8255,” 그녀는 덧붙였다. “Thank you all for continuing to respect the privacy of our family while we grieve.”
Simpkins’ own history with beauty pageants had a profound impact on Kryst as a child.
에 2002, Simpkins was named Mrs. North Carolina — becoming just the second Black woman to hold the title, 에 따르면 Charlotte Observer.
“I remember watching her win and going to appearances with her during her reign,” Kryst, who was also an attorney and social justice advocate, 썼다 안에 2019 blog post for the North Carolina Bar Association. “Her title provided her with a platform to advocate for issues that were important to her and people listened.”
The experience inspired Kryst to start competing.
“It was a time in my life when I didn’t know who I was and wasn’t confident in myself. I was that little weird kid who had a unibrow and didn’t have any friends,” 그녀는 말했다 2019, 에 따르면 AP 통신. “I thought I want to be just like her.”
Following her death Sunday, NS 추가의 correspondent’s family remembered her for inspiring others “around the world with her beauty and strength,” they wrote in a 성명.
“Cheslie embodied love and served others, whether through her work as an attorney fighting for social justice, as Miss USA and as a host on 추가의. 하지만 가장 중요한 것은, as a daughter, 자매, 친구, mentor and colleague — we know her impact will live on,” 그들은 덧붙였다.
당신이나 당신이 아는 누군가가 자살을 고려하고 있다면, National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK로 연락하십시오. (8255), 텍스트 “힘” 위기 텍스트 라인에 741-741 또는 로 이동 자살예방라이프라인.org.