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Will Smith Says He and Jada Pinkett Smith Agreed ‘It Was a Fantasy Illusion That We Could Make Each Other Happy

Will Smith Says He and Jada Pinkett Smith Agreed 'It Was a Fantasy Illusion That We Could Make Each Other Happy'

윌 스미스 isn’t shying away from addressing his marriage to 제이다 핀켓 스미스.

와의 새로운 인터뷰에서 오프라 윈프리 for Apple TV+’s 오프라 대화, the 53-year-old actor spoke about his marriage after the host touched on the couple’s revelation that they had spent a period of time separated. 안에 2020 에피소드 레드 테이블 토크, Pinkett Smith revealed she’d had a relationship with singer August Alsina while still married to Smith.

“알 잖아, it’s really funny,” 스미스는 윈프리에게, via 야후! Entertainment. “We never actually like officially separated.

NS 맨 인 블랙 별, who is promoting his new memoir 할 것이다, said things in the couple’s marriage reached a peak in September 2011 during Pinkett Smith’s 40th birthday party that he spent three years planning and that she disliked, which led to an explosive fight between the two.

We realized that it was a fantasy illusion that we could make each other happy,” 스미스가 말했다. “We agreed that she had to make herself happy and I had to make myself happy. Then we were going to present ourselves back to the relationship already happy—versus demanding that the other person fill our empty cup.

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그는 계속했다, “우리는 방금 결정했습니다, ‘You have to figure out how to be happy.’ “

When Winfrey asked Smith if he and Pinkett Smith, 50, could have other sexual partners, the actor answered, “We talk about everything. I think the difficulty that people have and difficulty in discussing it is people only think in terms of sex.

Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith

Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith
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People are trying to put something on it: ‘Will and Jada — what they doing with other people?'” 그는 계속했다. “Will and Jada ain’t really doing too much of nothin’. Will and Jada are on a spiritual journey to cleanse the poisonous, unloving parts of our hearts. And we’re doing it together in this lifetime no matter what.

스미스가 추가했습니다, “But the goal is not a sexual goal. It’s spiritual. We are going to love each other no matter what. Since we are talking about it, 오프라, let’s just talk about it: No woman can make me happy, so I don’t need to look for one to try and make me happy. No man can make Jada happy, so she don’t need to go look for one to make her happy. We both know that. There is no person that will fill your hole.

Love being the most fearful place you’ll ever try to step into. Real love. That unconditional love. To be able to open a broken heart again. Open a broken heart again and again,” 그는 공유.

9월 인터뷰에서 지큐, Smith said the public did not get the full story about Pinkett Smith’sentanglementwith Alsina.

The public has a narrative that is impenetrable,” 그가 설명했다. “Once the public decides something, it’s difficult to impossible to dislodge the pictures and ideas and perceptions.

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스미스는 말했다 지큐, “Jada never believed in [NS] conventional marriage.

Jada had family members that had an unconventional relationship. So she grew up in a way that was very different than how I grew up,” 그는 말했다. “There were significant endless discussions about, what is relational perfection? What is the perfect way to interact as a couple? And for the large part of our relationship, monogamy was what we chose, not thinking of monogamy as the only relational perfection.

그는 계속했다, “We have given each other trust and freedom, with the belief that everybody has to find their own way. And marriage for us can’t be a prison. And I don’t suggest our road for anybody. I don’t suggest this road for anybody. But the experiences that the freedoms that we’ve given one another and the unconditional support, 나에게, is the highest definition of love.

할 것이다 is available for purchase on Nov. 9.