90 일: 김정은은 "준비 안 돼"’ Usman이 입양을 긴급 탄원으로 그녀에게 충격을 주면서 엄청난 손실에 대해

우리 모두는 당신이 당신의 호텔 방에 머물고 내 자신의 호텔 방에 머무를 것이라는 데 동의했습니다., 51 (샌디에고, 칼리프.) 그리고 우스만, 33 (나이지리아)

우리 모두는 당신이 당신의 호텔 방에 머물고 내 자신의 호텔 방에 머무를 것이라는 데 동의했습니다., 51 (샌디에고, 칼리프.) 그리고 우스만, 33 (나이지리아)

Kim and Usman from 90 Day Fiancé: 그 뒤로 쭉 행복하게.
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Kim은 Usman에게 그녀와 호텔 방을 공유하도록 요청합니다. coped with the emotional tumult of a family loss as fiancé 우스만 “SojaboyUmar opened the door to adding a new member on the latest 90 데이 약혼자: 그 뒤로 쭉 행복하게?

일요일 방송에서, the 52-year-old struggled to understand how her new family might look after a conversation in which she told Usman, 33: “I’m worried about our future.

Instead of listening, he dropped a bomb: “I feel like maybe I’m going to adopt.

“뭐? 뭐? Are you joking right now?” Kim asked.

Usman explained, “If getting a second wife is something that can’t happen, 제 생각에는 adopting my nephew Mahadi would be the best idea.

90 Day Fiancé's Kim Reconsiders Letting Usman to Have a Second Wife: 'Your A-- Is Pissing Me Off'

90 Day Fiancé's Kim Reconsiders Letting Usman to Have a Second Wife: 'Your A-- Is Pissing Me Off'

Kim and Usman.
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The pair have struggled the realities of having children, which Kim’s age complicates — but which Usman’s mother demands. They had settled on the idea of Usman taking a second wife specifically for the purpose of having children. Unfortunately they were informed by a lawyer that, even though this is acceptable in his home country of Nigeria, it would compromise his ability to secure a visa in the U.S.

So Usman decided he could create a family by adopting his brother Mohammed’s son.

Kim was not immediately keen on the idea: “So your brother gives you his baby. 뭐? Then who the fraises his child?”

Usman replied, “I’m asking, do you want to raise him?”

“아니요, I’m too old,” Kim said. “I don’t know if I want to raise another child, like I raised mine, 내가 뭔 말하는지 알 잖아?”

The call ended with the couple resolving to talk more about the issues at hand, but later in a confessional, Kim was less optimistic, 속담, “I’m in total shock. 좋다, this is a WTF moment.

90 Day's Kim Rejects Usman's Mom's Demand He Marry Another Woman First: 'Not Gonna Be Anybody's Second'

90 Day's Kim Rejects Usman's Mom's Demand He Marry Another Woman First: 'Not Gonna Be Anybody's Second'

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Earlier in the episode, Kim shared that she had recently lost her mother unexpectedly, shortly after she returned from Nigeria.

In a conversation as Kim and her son Jamal walked along the San Diego boardwalk, they remembered Kim’s mom, with whom she’d lived and for whom she’d cared the past eight years.

Jamal even joked, “잘, Usman’s almost the same age as me, so you can take care of him.

It was almost too soon for Kim, who winced before laughing.

The 25-year-old encouraged Kim: “You’ve got Usman, and regardless of how I feel about him, he is very supportive of you, so I appreciate it.

He continued later in a confessional, “I feel like my mom is not someone who likes being alone, but she also knows I’m a phone call away and I’ll get on that plane whenever she needs me.

김을 위해, the death of her mom did help to clarify one thing about her relationship with Usman: “It’s really super important to me now with my mom’s passing that Usman comes to the States to be with me.

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